tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-67688653860071668502024-02-15T02:15:15.138-06:00 So, Funny Story...Sometimes you laugh because life's funny. Sometimes you laugh or else you'd cry. Either way, there's always a funny story to be had...Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.comBlogger952125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-52754482158504093592018-03-14T10:00:00.001-05:002018-03-14T10:00:18.996-05:00Wednesday Hodgepodge 3/14<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>1. Best place you've been lately?</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: inherit;">Honestly, it's been crazy busy with musical practices finishing up and track practices starting, so the best place I've been lately is at home in bed! That feeling that you get when you can finally settle in at the end of the day is the best!</span> <span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /><b><br />2. What's something you should say yes to today? Or this week? Or even this year?</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: inherit;">This year, I'd like to say yes to adventures more. It's hard being single in a small town at this age because all my friends either live away from here or are married with kids. I'm not a huge fan of traveling by myself, but I don't really have anyone who can just pick up and go with me either. But I'd like to be creative and find some ways to travel, even short distances, and see some things I've been wanting to see.</span> <span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /><br /><b>3. Do you celebrate St. Patrick's Day in any way, shape, or form? If so tell us how. In Western cultures, the color green is typically associated with jealousy, nature, good luck, and growth. What's the first thing that comes to mind when <i>you</i> hear the word 'green'?</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: inherit;">I'm not a big St. Patrick's Day person. I do usually try to wear something green, though. When I hear the word green, I think of winter wheat which is the most beautiful color of green.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: inherit;">I really struggled with this question. I've been trying to find a new face regimen and ran across Soap and Glory's 4-1 Cleansing Milk, which smells like peaches. I feel pretty strongly about that right now. Or my Kenra 25 Hairspray, which with my recent hair issues has been a lifesaver.</span> <span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span> <span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /><br /><b>5. March 14th is Pi Day. How are your math skills? What's the last thing you did that required math of any kind? And most importantly do you like pie? What's your favorite kind? With ice cream, whipped cream, or please hold the cream?</b><br />My math skills are not much to write home about. I can teach a lot of subjects, but math is not one of them. Yesterday, I was helping some students figure out what their target grades had to be for the 4th Quarter, so that's probably the most recent use. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">As for pie, I'm very picky. I like my grandma's apple crumb pie, and I like a couple of pies from a local bake shop, but that's probably it. Always ice cream. Always.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">It's possible that I've just mentally shut down from all the things that I have going on over the next month. Between school stuff and my sister's wedding, I'm just on auto-pilot. But I'm trying to remember that things will all get done, one way or another.</span>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-71419090968731554772018-02-27T13:55:00.003-06:002018-02-27T13:55:29.084-06:00Wednesday Hodgepodge<span style="font-family: inherit;">1. Are you currently operating at 100% capacity? If not, what % are you? What's keeping you there?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I'm probably operating at about 90% most of the time. I was very sick and in the hospital for a month in the fall, and while I'm back to work and doing well, there are still a lot of times when I have to deal with some residual effects of what happened. </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">2. Have you done your taxes? Planned/booked a summer holiday? Thought about or started your 'spring cleaning'? Besides what's listed here, tell us one task that needs doing before spring rolls around.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I've got to sit down at some point this weekend and get my taxes done, but it won't be Saturday because I have my sister's wedding shower! She's getting married in just a few weeks. I don't know that I'm going to take a summer holiday, even though I would love to spend a few days at the beach. And as far as spring cleaning, I always need to do a little of that! I'd like to finish up my new closet space while I'm off on spring break at the end of the month.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br />3. What's a favorite food from your part of the country?</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br />4. This isn't a leap year, but let's run with it anyway...look before you leap, a leap of faith, grow by leaps and bounds, leap to conclusions, leap at the opportunity...which phrase might best be applied to your life currently (or recently)? Explain.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I'm all about the leap of faith right now. I'm directing a pretty ambitious musical this spring, along with all of my other pursuits and I'm really just believing that it's all going to fall into place. </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br />5. As the month draws to a close list five fun and/or fabulous things (large or small) you noticed or experienced in February.</span><br />
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<li><b>The nieces are always fun and fabulous.</b></li>
<li><b>I successfully organized Senior Night (with a lot of help).</b></li>
<li><b>I introduced my music class to <i>That Thing You Do</i> (highly underrated movie).</b></li>
<li><b>We had a fun field trip day last Friday, even if the show we saw wasn't that great.</b></li>
<li><b>I accidentally fixed my flooded basement on Sunday. (The pump had stalled.)</b></li>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>It feels like February was a complete whirlwind! It feels like the rest of the school year is a very fast downward slide from here.</b></span><br />
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-45729829907844022142017-07-05T11:12:00.001-05:002017-07-05T11:12:04.167-05:00Wednesday Hodgepodge<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #666666;"><b>1. When and where were the best fireworks you've ever seen? Speaking of fireworks...do you know your hot buttons? The things people can say and/or do to set you off? When was the last time someone pushed one of your hot buttons?</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I saw some pretty good ones last night! The people a block over were shooting them in the street and it was like they were in my yard. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I used to be easier to trigger, but I have mellowed with age. I tend to only get really fired up when someone is unfair to someone in a position of less authority. This is usually when it comes to students, but can show up in other forms, too. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I'm not an outdoor person. I certainly haven't thrown any outdoor parties, and every time I think I'm going to one, I talk myself into some AC instead. It's humid here and I just don't enjoy the heat. </span><br />
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In that vein, the key to an outdoor party is cool weather or access to a pool! <br />
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To me, freedom means that I have the right to have opinions, even if you disagree with them. And vice versa. One of the most frustrating things to me right now is that no one is open to actual discourse on seemingly any topic.<br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The thing that annoys me most is when people use cell phones as an excuse not to have manners or be present with people. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">It always feels like the summer ends quickly after the 4th. But by the time we get there, I'm always ready to get back to work and see how the kiddos have grown over the summer.. </span>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-37927041468978004012017-06-28T12:26:00.002-05:002017-06-28T12:26:59.868-05:00Summer Goals Check-In #3<div style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: Puritan; font-size: 16px;">
I'm in a much better head space than the last time I was here. While I never turn a blind eye to my anxiety, it does ebb and flow and this week has been much better. Even better, I've made progress on more than just one of my goals. Let's check in!</div>
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<li><b>Read more.</b> - I have finished four books in June and still have a couple of days left. Check the Book Challenge tab to see just what I've been reading. </li>
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It always seems like summer goes fast once we get to the 4th of July, so I'm just buckling in to enjoy what's left before it's back to that school day grind! </div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-64449043498455536562017-06-15T16:02:00.002-05:002017-06-15T16:02:59.995-05:00Summer Goals Check-In #2This is a space where I intend to be honest, so here goes nothing. I am not doing so hot with my goals overall, minus improving my health at the moment. Moreover, especially this week for some reason, I'm really struggling with mental spin out. If you don't know what I mean by that, let me explain. <div>
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I've always struggled with anxiety. I used to have hyper-realistic nightmares about failing tests long after I was out of school. I tend to latch on to the worst-case scenario of most situations, and prepare as though that is the inevitability. I'm a bit of a raging hypochondriac. Depending on where I am in my life, anxiety manifests in different ways. Currently, I spend a lot of my time alone. I don't have a tremendous amount of friends in my life right now, and those that I do have are traveling or don't get their summers off. My sister works the night shift, so half of any week I'm sleeping while she's working or vice versa. And that leaves me alone with my thoughts, and I don't always need to be alone with my thoughts. Now, let me say upfront that I am not a danger to myself or others. That's not at all what I'm talking about. Now feels like a good time to include that I am a control freak, and I do not handle change well, at all. And here's the thing about life--it often changes quickly and without the courtesy of even sending advance notice. (Preferably on engraved stationery, please and thank you.) All of these things have been building into the greatest anxiety sandwich you might ever want to behold. And I've ponied up to the table ready to take it down in one gulp. </div>
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I hear myself when I'm spinning out. I know what I sound like. (Like I should be in a bunker in a tin foil hat, more often than not.) But, that doesn't always stop it. The good news is that since I'm on a reasonably successful health kick, I haven't been using my two favorite methods of shutting off the anxiety, food and alcohol. I've been filling that gap with obsessively checking social media and reading the comments of other people who may actually be in bunkers with their shiny, shiny hats. And while it's calorie-free, it's not doing much for my mental health. Ironically, I thinned out much of Facebook during 2016, so my feed is mostly businesses selling antiques and comfy t-shirts (I see you, Ruby's Rubbish). But Twitter might as well be Pandora's box right now. Part of it is that things happen there in real time. No sooner has something happened than you have video and first-person accounts, and all of the commentary on it (SO MUCH COMMENTARY, and everyone's an expert). I love that about the medium, but it's also something that isn't great when you have unlimited time to obsess. So, I'm really working on thinning out who and what I connect with there simply for my own sanity, And I will continue to wrestle the beast, and keep out of the tin foil. </div>
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On with the check-up, such as it is:</div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-38293650659446179942017-06-02T21:24:00.003-05:002017-06-02T21:24:32.781-05:00The WorkI promise this isn't going to become a fitness blog. However, as this is my space, I get to decide the programming and tonight we're going to talk about what I've been up to the last 26 days.<br />
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The last 26 days I have logged every bit of food that has gone into my body and drank more water than I ever thought possible. (Seriously, no sodas in nearly a month. Not even a sip.) I've clocked every minute of exercise. I've counted every single step. I've compared this week to last week and the week before that to see where I can improve. I've crunched more numbers than can possibly be healthy, and read every chart and graph the apps have offered. I've treated my body like a science experiment. And in 26 days, I've lost 16.4 pounds. <br />
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Now, before we start up the confetti cannons, I should let you know that I have a long way to go. Very long. Ideally, I would like to reach my first goal (60 pounds gone) by my 36th birthday this October. It also means that when we go shopping for bridesmaid dresses I will be ordering one much smaller than what I would order right now. Once I reach that goal, I would like to try to lose even more, but what I want most is to be as healthy as possible, no matter the size.<br />
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I love how I feel right now. It's work, but it's the best kind. And if I already feel better, imagine how it will feel when I hit my goals farther down the road. I've got to stop now because I'm getting up at the literal crack of dawn to go walk with my sister and I need my rest. (I totally log my sleep now, too. I'm such a weirdo.) Just wanted to share.Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-60983221879139373512017-05-22T09:18:00.003-05:002017-05-22T09:21:06.527-05:00Summer Goals Check-In #1I know, technically, it's not even summer vacation yet. But I felt like this was a good time for a baseline check of how things are going in each of my selected areas of interest. I'll try to do this every couple of weeks this summer to keep you, my dozens of readers, up-to-date and to keep myself honest. <br />
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<li><b>Read more.</b> - I haven't started reading yet, unless you count the books I bought for my nieces. But it's on starting Thursday. I haven't completely organized my reading list, but I'm looking forward to a lot of time in my sun room reading this summer. </li>
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<li><b>Turn off the TV.</b> - Not doing so hot on this one either, but I am exercising while I watch, so that's an improvement, at least. I mean, Netflix released the new season of <b><i>Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt</i></b> this weekend and I got hooked on their new true crime documentary, <b><i>The Keepers</i></b>. The Lemonade episode of <i>Kimmy</i> is so great (and the season as a whole has some great laughs). But let me talk for a minute about <i>The Keepers</i>. I still have two episodes left and I am so intrigued by that entire story. I don't want to spoil it with too many details, but it's a murder mystery involving a nun, but so much more is revealed in the process. I highly recommend the series. </li>
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<li><b>Lose weight/Eat right.</b> - I'm doing really well with this particular goal. I've lost 13.2 pounds since I started about two weeks ago. I'm watching what I eat (using the Lose It! app) and exercising a lot (thanks, Fitbit!). I still have a long way to reach my first goal, but it certainly doesn't seem like such a pipe dream anymore. </li>
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<li><b>Prep curriculum.</b> - I'm in the "gathering up what I need" stage at the moment. Of course, I also live very close to my school, so it's not like I can't come trade out when I needed. I am looking forward to putting together some fun projects for next year for a several of my classes. (At this point, I'm not even totally sure what all I'm teaching next year, but I am working on what I know.)</li>
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I'm well on my way to summer vacation! Wednesday is my last official day, so I'm looking forward to not waking up to an alarm on Thursday. I will check back in on my goals Monday, June 5.</div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-38930845571135656462017-05-17T06:00:00.000-05:002017-05-17T12:49:30.672-05:00Wednesday Hodgepodge<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #666666;">1. May 17th is National Pack Rat Day. Sidebar-</span><i style="color: #666666;">should we be celebrating this?</i><span style="color: #666666;"> Hmmm...</span></span><br />
<span style="color: #666666;">Are you a pack rat? Even if you're not a full fledged pack rat, most people have one thing or another they struggle to part with. Tell us what's yours.</span><br />
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<span style="color: #666666; font-family: inherit;">3. Do you crave sugar? Do you add sugar to your coffee and/or tea? Do you use artificial sweeteners or sugar substitutes? When dining out is dessert a given? Are you someone who has slain the sugar dragon, and if so tell us how you did it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I do crave sugar. I have to have at least some in my hot tea, but will drink unsweetened iced tea. I will use a pack of Splenda in a pinch, but I don't like the taste of artificial stuff. I love dessert, but since I'm working to lose weight, I'm trying to be very selective about what and when I have it. (Though they had Dippin' Dots at school on Monday, and I definitely had some. Also, the guy who invented them graduated from my school system, so we get them from time to time.) </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>Leggings. I love them so much. I wear them underneath my dresses and my tunics and it makes it very hard to love my jeans again. </b><br style="color: #666666;" /><br /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">5. What's a song that reminds you of a specific incident in your life? Please elaborate.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I was in the eighth grade and it was about this time of year, and our high boys team had the opportunity to play another school at (old) Busch Stadium. School was let out, and it seems like the whole county went north for the game. Our boys played in the early afternoon, then we had tickets to watch the Cardinals that night. My friends and their parents all stayed overnight at the hotel across the street and we all went to this little diner/bar area in the hotel and the song "Cheap Seats" by Alabama came on the jukebox. It was a brand new song at the time and we sang along, laughing and smiling at each other. I can still see everyone's faces. And whenever I hear that song, I'm instantly transported right back to that sweet moment.</b><br /><br /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">6. Insert your own random thought here.</span></span><br />
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<b>I realize this was very much my random thought last week, but by the time you're reading this, I will only have five more days of work for the school year! And I am ready for a break from that grind more with every passing moment. I'm ready to have my own routine and schedule! I'm ready to not wake up with an alarm clock every day. And I'm really ready to get to work on my summer goals!!</b>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-72974626476497271132017-05-11T09:50:00.001-05:002017-05-11T10:49:46.180-05:00Summer GoalsLike I said in the Hodgepodge, I'm just a couple weeks away from summer vacation. I often joke that they have to give teachers a break so that we are willing to come back and do it all over again. Summer is definitely about refocusing and restoration for me, but left to my own devices, I am the worst. I stay up late and sleep later, watch too much TV and spend more time than I possibly should lounging around. So, for this summer, I'm setting forth a few goals.<br />
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<li><b>Read more.</b> - I've already put forth the 2017 Book Challenge, but I'm only doing so-so at that. I just don't have the focus to read during the school year, so I'm going to really work on making some headway this summer. I have a shelf full (and a Kindle full) of great books just waiting to be read!</li>
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<li><b>Turn off the TV.</b> - I love television. I always have. But I'm spending too much time with it. This summer, I want watching TV to be an event, not constant background noise.</li>
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<li><b>Lose weight/Eat right. </b> - My little sister gets married March of 2018. I desperately need to lose some weight before that happens. My big goal is 60 pounds, but I'm focusing on the daily goal of just surviving each day without completely losing it and eating an entire pan of brownies for now.</li>
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<li><b>Learn to cook.</b> - I can read a recipe, but I don't enjoy cooking. I just don't. But I know that to be ultimately successful at losing weight, I need to stop eating pre-packaged crap. This means I'm going to have to be able to successfully prep and cook things that are good for me to eat. So, that will be interesting.</li>
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<li><b>Prep curriculum for 2017-18</b> - I'm teaching two different sections of American History, World History, and Music Appreciation, and while I've taught these classes before, I have several things I would like to work on before going at it again. My goal is to spend at least a day or two a week focused on getting these plans into working order. (And this is why teachers are never fully on break.)</li>
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<li><b>Go on adventures. </b> - I love a good adventure. Whether it's going some place I've never been or just looking more closely at places I thought I knew, I want to go have some fun this summer! </li>
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I know these are mostly the lame things that people always say, but I really mean them and I am fully prepared to show proof this summer as needed. And most of all, I can't wait to get started! (Only nine days to go!!)</div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-4074460987299774812017-05-10T06:00:00.000-05:002017-05-10T09:30:08.216-05:00Wednesday Hodgepodge<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #666666;">1. Share a favorite memory of your mother </span><i style="color: #666666;">or</i><span style="color: #666666;"> share a favorite something from your own life as a mother. If you're a mother (or stepmom) tell us how your experience as a mom differs from your own mother's experience.</span><br style="color: #666666;" /><br /><b>I get my hysterical laughter from my mama. When we think something is truly and wholly funny, we are known to laugh until no sound comes out and tears stream down our faces. One such instance was years ago, when my mom, dad, brother and I had gone out to dinner. My brother was maybe nine, and displeased that we had decided to eat Chinese food. He remains one of the funniest people I know, and was that way even then. He started in on a comedy routine that had Mom and I laughing so hard that by the time the waitress came to take our order, we looked like there had been some kind of tragedy at the table. I was blessed to grow up in a house where wit and laughter were always encouraged.</b><br /><br /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">2. In May we celebrate teachers (May 9) and nurses (May 6) both. Most every family has at least one in their midst, so tell us something (or a few things) you appreciate about the teacher or nurse on your family tree.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>You can't hit a branch of my family tree that doesn't have a teacher or a nurse in it. It goes back generations. Maybe that's because post-Civil War, both were considered acceptable positions for women, but it's definitely there. Both of my parents, one first cousin and I are teachers, my sister and two aunts are nurses. So maybe it's simply the lineage in both of those fields of service that I appreciate so much. </b><br style="color: #666666;" /><br /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">3. Chicken salad, egg salad, tuna salad...which would you go for if all three were on the menu? On bread or a bed of lettuce? If you answered bread, what </span><i style="color: #666666;">kind</i><span style="color: #666666;"> of bread would make it the perfect sandwich?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I don't like anything in a salad. It just grosses me out. If I had to pick, I would go with some kind of chunky chicken salad with no egg. And definitely some good homemade bread of some type. Because who can pass up bread?</b><br style="color: #666666;" /><br /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">4. Do you have a desk? Is it organized? If so, share your secret to keeping it that way. If you don't have a desk, where in your home do you take care of family paperwork and business? Where do you normally sit to blog?</span></span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: inherit;">I have a desk in my office at home and a desk at school. Neither are particularly organized, but I know where most things are. My school desk is especially out of control this time of year. (see picture for reference.) This is what the end of the year looks like in desk form. Being a teacher is hard, people!</span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>my little sister was born. And I thought she was exactly what I wanted, until she got big enough to be in my things. There were some sketchy years when she was a student in my classroom and I was still living at home. But now that we are both adults, we are best friends. </b><br style="color: #666666;" /><br /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">6. Insert your own random thought here.</span></span><br />
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<b>I love my job. I was born to be a teacher. But I am so ready for summer vacation I could scream! Good thing we only have two more weeks!</b>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-2784456883809165142017-04-26T13:43:00.002-05:002017-04-26T13:43:42.815-05:00Wednesday Hodgepodge<div style="text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">1. <i>April showers bring May flowers</i> or so the saying goes. Has your April been filled with showers? Do you carry an umbrella, wear a slicker, or make a run for it? Besides rain, what else has filled your April? </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>We have had a very rainy spring! In fact, it rained for most of Friday's track meet. I had an umbrella, but that wasn't always as effective as I might have liked. Aside from rain, I started the month with the school musical, had spring break, and then went right into track. Love the downhill slope to the end of the school year.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I'd like to think I could give a decent presentation on most things teacher-related. Plus, I do sort of make my living doing several 30-minute presentations a day on history and literature. (Though I might still need some notes for those.)</b><br style="color: #666666;" /><br /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">3. Share with us a favorite food memory from childhood.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>My favorite memory is making dumpling with my grandma. She would give us little chunks of dough and when we were tall enough we could help put them into the pot on the stove. She's still living and occasionally still makes them and it's still my favorite.</b></span>
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br style="color: #666666;" /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">4. What's a song you thought you knew the lyrics to, but later discovered you were wrong?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br style="color: #666666;" /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">5. According to </span><a href="https://www.thrillist.com/travel/nation/most-overrated-tourist-attractions-us-vacation-spots-you-can-avoid" style="color: #6e698f; text-decoration-line: none;">one travel website</a><span style="color: #666666;">, the most overrated tourist attractions in America are-</span><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;">Niagara Falls (NY), Hollywood Walk of Fame (California), Times Square (NYC), Epcot (FL), Seattle Space Needle (WA), and Faneuil Hall and Quincy Market (Boston). How many of these have you seen in person? Did you feel like a tourist? Did you care? Tell us about a place (not on the list) you've visited that might be considered a tourist trap, but you love it anyway.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>Of that list, I've only been to Times Square. I was 17 and definitely felt like a tourist, but it was still fun to see. I live near the Gateway Arch of St. Louis, and it's really not particularly exciting to see (It really is just a big metal arch), but I still remember looking for it every time we went into the city as a kid. They have done some renovations on the museum and I would like to check it out sometime once it is reopened.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I don't know what it is for sure, but it's definitely black. I also am really fond of hoop earrings and most recently, leggings with tunics.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I would say participating in theater. Even if it's just not of interest to you, I think it's eye-opening when you see the amount of work that goes in to even a small show. Plus, I think that learning how to perform on a stage is a good life skill.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #666666;"><b>I cannot wait to see Lucie Silvas and Chris Stapleton Friday night!!</b></span></span>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-85142057925938194122017-03-22T10:07:00.000-05:002017-03-22T10:10:00.953-05:00Wednesday Hodgepodge (Because I'm Averaging One a Month)<br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #666666;"><b>1. Setting aside the real March Madness (NCAA Basketball) describe something happening at your house this month that might earn the title 'March Madness'?</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #666666;">I put on a musical with about 70 or so kids participating and it happens to end right at the end of the month. This year we are doing <i>Beauty and the Beast</i> and the music is difficult and the costumes are elaborate, and did I mention all the children?? Pretty much everything about my life right now is madness.</span><br /><br /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;"><b>2. What's a favorite made up word from your childhood or a favorite from your children's childhood? Does your family still use the word today? If there's a story behind the origin please share.</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I don't really recall one from my own childhood. I was a dramatic kid, but I'm not sure that I ever had a made up word.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br style="color: #666666;" /><b><span style="color: #666666;">3. Will you be doing any spring cleaning now that the season is upon us? </span><a href="http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/home/cleaning/g4230/quick-spring-cleaning-tasks/?src=nl&mag=ghk&list=nl_gga_news&date=031517" style="color: #6e698f; text-decoration: none;">I read here</a><span style="color: #666666;"> a list of 15 quick (under one hour) spring cleaning tasks. They were-</span><br style="color: #666666;" /><br style="color: #666666;" /><i style="color: #666666;">clean out a drawer, vacuum furniture, whiten tile grout, dust the nooks and crannies you don't get to year round, degrease kitchen cabinets, wipe down walls, go behind furniture, wipe down ceiling fans, vacuum the mattress, clean the range hood, wash baseboards, shine the stainless steel, clean out vents, tackle the windows, and wipe down gadgets</i><br style="color: #666666;" /><i style="color: #666666;"><br /></i><span style="color: #666666;">Of the fifteen 'quick' tasks listed which </span><i style="color: #666666;">two</i><span style="color: #666666;"> most need doing at your house? Will you do them?</span></b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br /></span><span style="font-family: inherit;">Oh, Joyce, I need to do all 15 of these. But, all of them will have to wait until I get to spring break. I have several home improvement/cleaning projects that I'm hoping to get done during that time off. To answer the question, I will go with dusting the nooks and crannies and cleaning out drawers. </span><br />
<span style="font-family: inherit;"><br style="color: #666666;" /><br style="color: #666666;" /><span style="color: #666666;"><b>4. A favorite movie set in Paris or New York?</b></span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I really had to think about this one, but I finally settled on the first (and only good) <i>Sex In The City</i> movie. I don't think it gets much more New York City than that. If I really went digging, I'm sure I could come up with a few more.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">The fact that it feels like spring again for the most part. It warmed up early in February, but then we had a cold snap and even some brief snows before it warmed up again in the last week or so. I'm ready for it to feel like spring, but the summer heat can take its time. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #666666;">I spent all of high school and one and half years of college saying that I didn't want to be a teacher. My mom taught kindergarten most of my life and my dad teaches high school vocational classes (auto body and repair). I couldn't imagine going into education until I did AmeriCorps. I worked with at-risk kids and loved it, and after that there wasn't really any doubt what I was going to be. I've been teaching for 14 years now and I can't imagine loving anything else.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">I like the smell of real flowers, but I don't enjoy floral candles or anything like that. I'm more of a vanilla or coconut type of girl. And as much as I enjoy wine, I'm never good at determining what notes are in them. If it doesn't taste like the bottom of an oak barrel, I'll probably drink it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="color: #666666;">I've been having weird dreams for the last week or so. They wake me up and then I go back to sleep and have a different weird dream and I pretty much do this all night. I'm not sure what's causing it, but I would really like for it to stop.</span></span>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-90749084881032428122017-02-15T12:54:00.003-06:002017-02-16T08:27:15.943-06:00Hodgepodge 2/15<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333;">1. What do/did you call your grandparents? If it's something unusual tell us the story behind the name. If you're a grandparent what do your grands call you? Who chose your moniker?</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I called both sets of grandparents Grandma and Grandpa, then just added their first names. However, the great-grandkids call my two living grandmothers Gigi and Granny Jo, so that's what I call them the most these days.</b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>I have never been to California. I would be happy to see any of it, Obviously, the iconic figures like the Golden Gate Bridge would be on my list. </b></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><b>Knit, Sew, Crochet. Many have tried to teach me. All have failed.</b></span><br />
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<b>I'm trying very hard to celebrate love and the lifting up of others. This is easier some days than others. Yesterday, for instance, instead of being bitter about Valentine's Day, I donated to a couple of causes I believe deeply in, and did some not-so-random acts of kindness. I'm celebrating small victories, every single day.</b><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;"><span style="background-color: white; color: #333333;"><b>This is one of my busiest weeks of the winter. I'm booked every night with some school obligation or the other and I'm just tired. But next week looks tame by comparison.</b></span></span>Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-30926235305288641342017-02-14T09:41:00.002-06:002017-02-14T09:41:29.734-06:00Quote of the DayIn my classroom, students record a quote and then tell me what it means as their bellwork, a quick assignment they complete before class actually begins. These quote lists were made years ago, and are simply numbered by day. I say all that to share today's quote:<br />
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"There is no greatness where simplicity, goodness, and truth are absent." Leo Tolstoy<br />
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Seems fitting for the times we live in, doesn't it?Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-12455798661470049042017-02-10T08:47:00.002-06:002017-02-10T08:47:49.783-06:00BlahAm I the only one who has been feeling especially blah lately? And I'm not just talking about the political arena, though there's certainly enough going on there. I hesitate to call what I'm feeling pessimism, because I don't really feel that everyone and everything is bad. It just feels like every area in my life is part of some emotional rollercoaster I did not get in line to ride. And yet, here I am in the stupid car with nothing but my faith in God and razor sharp wit to keep me secured.<br />
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A student the other day was talking about how "grown" they were. I pounced as soon as the words came out of their mouth. "Do not be in a hurry to become an adult. Being an adult is a trap. Stay a kid with a magic refrigerator and occasional laundry service for as long as your parents are cool with it." And I say that somewhat jokingly, but also not. Because this being an adult thing is way harder than they tell you it's going to be. And I have extremely supportive parents who do things like go out and get me a hot water heater because mine is leaking and I have no clue A) how to get the right kind/size of water heater for my aged house and B) when I would actually go get one as ballgame season is still happening and on the few nights I'm home I pretty much collapse in a pile.<br />
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I've been living on my own for nearly 15 years, and I still have no clue what I'm doing 90% of the time. And while I'm doing that 10% I think I have a handle on, someone is bound to tell me I'm not doing it to their satisfaction. Yeah, yeah, we aren't supposed to let other people's opinions get us down, but have you figured out how to actually do that? Because I'm a habitual people pleaser, and knowing someone doesn't like me or something I've been a part of is kind of devastating to me, even when I try to pretend that's not true. Part of that is probably that I live and work in the same community that raised me, so interpersonal relationships can get complicated. But even if I lived and worked elsewhere, I'd still want people to like me and the work I do. It's just who I am.<br />
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I don't really know that I have an actual point outside of thinking maybe getting this all down will be cathartic or something. Maybe all of this ennui is seasonal and a result of a lack of snow days, paired with a full moon. Maybe the world really is a dumpster fire. And yet, for whatever reason here we are. And despite the rollercoaster, I still find things daily that bring me hope or make me smile or remind me that maybe no one really knows what they're doing. Maybe we really are all just winging it and hoping someone slightly more competent comes along side us to keep us afloat. I don't know. But maybe that's okay, too.Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-11823146969326195342017-02-01T14:06:00.003-06:002017-02-02T10:13:32.440-06:00Wednesday Hodgepodge - 2/1<span style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-family: inherit; font-size: 13.2px;">1. Can you believe it's the end of January? What was the best day of January 2017 for you, and why?</span><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: inherit;">I just saw Miranda Lambert for the third time and it was easily the best of her shows. The openers are great, and she is just musically in the best place she's ever been in. Singing and dancing at that show was one of the few moments of pure and absolute joy I felt this month. If the Highway Vagabond tour comes your way, I strongly suggest going!</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: inherit;">The sound of relentless junior high chatter. It's Spirit Week in these parts and it is noisy. </span></b><br />
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<i style="background-color: white; color: #333333; font-size: 13.2px;"><span style="font-family: inherit;">anger outbursts, people who put you down, regret, negative self talk, being a people pleaser, the notion you need to be perfect, the past (but keep the lessons learned!), gossip and judgment, comparing yourself to others, and the word hate (focus on what you love instead)</span></i><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: inherit;">I am a people pleaser at my very root. I talk a lot of stuff, but I care what people think about me and I don't like conflict. And if people aren't okay with me, I fret. I'd be okay with dropping some of that.</span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: inherit;">My time. Don't waste it. Don't take advantage of my willingness to help. Don't expect more of me than you are willing to give yourself. Also, don't ask me to get up really early on Saturdays. I may do it, but I will whine. </span></b><br />
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<b><span style="font-family: inherit;">I'm looking forward to hanging out with my bestie a little later this month. We don't get to see each other as often anymore, so any time we get to spend together is pretty special. </span></b><br />
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1. <i><b>ASAP</b></i> typically stands for 'as soon as possible'. What else could it stand for in your life right now? </div>
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2. Are you the last person to speak up in a group or the first to have an idea? Why do you suppose that is? Is it a good thing or no?</div>
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3. What do you remember best about being 12? </div>
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<b>When I was 12, I was starting the 8th grade, and I remember being surrounded by a fun group of friends. That year, the HS boys baseball team played at Busch Stadium and all of my friends and their parents went up and stayed over night and we just had the best time. Every time I hear the song "Cheap Seats" by Alabama, I think of that weekend.</b></div>
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4. January 18th is National Winnie the Pooh Day. Which character do you relate to the most, and why?</div>
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5. What's an app you use that helps simplify or make life easier for you in some way? </div>
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<b>I'm still learning how to work my iPhone after always having a Droid. I'm loving having a Podcast app that I can download my favorites straight to. The Popcast is my favorite and has gotten me through a few long drives recently!</b></div>
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6. <i>San</i> Francisco (CA), <i>San</i> Diego (CA), <i>San</i> Juan (PR) <i>San</i> Antonio (TX) <i>San</i>ibel (FL)...you have an all expenses paid long weekend to one of these destinations. Which one do you choose and why?</div>
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<b>Those are all pretty fabulous! My immediate response is San Juan, PR because it is so incredibly beautiful and I didn't get to experience near as much of it as I wanted to when I was there years ago. But I would also love going to San Antonio so that I could see my great aunt who lives there and really can't travel anymore. I keep saying I'm going to go down there again to see her, but I haven't had the chance.</b></div>
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<b>Oh, I'm such a music person. I can connect a song with just about every big moment in my life. The first one that came to mind was "I Hope You Dance" by Lee Ann Womack. I heard that song for the first time in my living room in college because Crys worked for the radio station and had a preview track. A bunch of us were together toward the end of our first or second year of college and I just remember how happy I was to be listening to that song with all these friends I loved so dearly. But I could probably pick a dozen or more others in this category.</b></div>
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<b>I haven't done the Hodgepodge in ages but in an effort to blog more, I couldn't resist! It was always one of my favorite blogs, and even though I'm late to the party this week, I'm going to try to join in more again!</b></div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-17295135002949702802017-01-01T18:56:00.003-06:002017-01-01T18:56:40.043-06:00Once Upon A TimeIt's been a really long time since I kept this blog up regularly. I don't really know why I stopped to be honest, other than just not really taking the time. And that's unfortunate, because I have "met" some of the best people because of this little corner of the internet. My goal for 2017 is to try to come here a little more often. I've set some personal goals for this year, so maybe I will come here to discuss them. <br />
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<li>Taking some steps (baby though they may be) to improve my personal health</li>
<li>To find ways to put love, peace, and goodness into the world by my actions and my finances (and by any other ways I can contribute)</li>
<li>To focus on the joy, even when my default setting is worst-case scenario</li>
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These are seemingly small things, but I'm good with that. I'm old enough to know that I'm not good with sweeping change. I get really into for a minute and then I get frustrated or bored or whatever and stop trying. I'm focusing on achieving the small things, because enough small things can turn into something bigger. I think that part of that may be coming by here and sharing again. Even if no reads it, I think it's something I'd like to do for myself. So, I'll see you soon!</div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-9888106395582040192016-11-09T12:53:00.001-06:002016-11-09T12:53:46.807-06:00Things That Bring Me JoyYesterday was a difficult day for a lot of people, me included. So, I decided that now was as good a time as any to get back on the blog for a list of joyful things. (I've taken a break from most other forms of social media for my own mental health.)<div>
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<li>Shellac nail polish is a miracle from heaven. My nails look awesome and that makes me feel put together and fancy. (Silly, but totally true.)</li>
<li>I get to spend all Friday with my bestie, just hanging out doing what we love (junk shopping). It's been too long and I miss her terribly.</li>
<li>We are just two weeks away from the Gilmore Girls revival. There may be custom theme wear in my immediate future.</li>
<li>My hope is found in Christ Jesus. God is love, and in Him there is no darkness at all, no matter what anyone else has to say. I've been mediating on my life verse, Psalm 27, and will continue to do so. </li>
<li>It's almost basketball season. It's a crazy busy time, but maybe that's for the best. I never have done well with time on my hands.</li>
<li>The band teacher and I are taking 60 kids to the symphony next week for free. Our kids don't often get experiences like this, so we're excited. Also, it's our first year to have a band in a while, so that's fun, too.</li>
<li>Kindness and love still prevail. This election as been rough on all of us. Last night there were many messages of despair, but today, I have seen so many full of kindness and love, messages that remind all of us that we still have the choice to get up every day and try to fill the world with as much good as possible. I know I've doubled down on my efforts.</li>
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The world feels uncertain and I imagine that isn't going away any time soon. But just because that's true, doesn't mean there aren't things that we can do to fight back against those feelings. What's bringing you joy today?</div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-1602039703547686032016-07-07T01:26:00.000-05:002016-07-07T01:26:35.158-05:00559I don't typically get political on the internet. But it's nearly 1 AM and I can't sleep because there are just so many troubling thoughts running through my head. And what's bothering me most isn't really political, it's societal. I think that, as a white woman, I've been afraid to say anything about what's happening between police and, primarily, the African American community. I don't want to say the wrong thing, to trivialize anyone's point of view, or because of my own privilege (and it is privilege), make matters worse. But staying silent feels like saying what's happening is okay, and it's not.<br />
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This is a heated topic, and one that I don't really have answers to. But I just know that we have to do better calling this what it is, and working to somehow change it. We can't keep seeing the body count rise in the name of law enforcement. We have to ask ourselves what's at the root of this? Is it fear? Racism? Something else? I have heard all the arguments and I can see where both sides are coming from, I suppose, but can't we all agree this isn't what we want? Surely this isn't what we want. I just don't know.<br />
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But here's what I do know. When I see another hashtag trending, I don't just mourn for the families who have lost someone. I start seeing faces of young black men and women I have taught, and I pray that this isn't their story. I think of my cousin's husband, who I routinely cut up with at family functions, and of their children, specifically their son, a smart, athletic, handsome teen, and pray it's not their story. Because somehow, this is what it's come to. I have begun to pray that someone I love isn't going to die because of a broken taillight. There have been 559 deaths in the US in 2016 during police interactions. And if it's not your friend, your student, your relative, it's still someone's. And I just don't believe it has to be. <br />
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I'm turning off comments, because I simply won't argue on this one. Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-45861586400371371032016-06-28T22:51:00.000-05:002017-02-06T11:56:29.575-06:00When A Coach Is More Than A CoachI don't remember the first time I heard the name Pat Summitt. But I remember when she came to my attention. My mother, in an effort to get my brother to enjoy reading, subscribed to Sports Illustrated, and one week, there was this woman glaring on the cover. And I just knew I had to know more about her. So, I stole the magazine and read the entire article. (You can read it <a href="http://www.si.com/vault/1998/03/02/239460/eyes-of-the-storm-when-tennessees-whirlwind-of-a-coach-pat-summitt-hits-you-with-her-steely-gaze-you-get-a-dose-of-the-intensity-that-has-carried-the-lady-vols-to-five-ncaa-titles">here</a>.) And, I kept that magazine in with other special mementos for years afterward. (I still have it somewhere in the depths of my back room, in fact.)<br />
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I don't know what exactly captivated me about Pat Summitt. I didn't come from a family that followed women's sports. I certainly never played basketball, routinely losing pick up games to a brother three years my junior. She did look a lot like my aunt, whose house I spent my formative years traipsing in an out of. But, I'd like to think that there was just something about her I knew was worth paying attention to, worth emulating, even when I was too young to understand how rare the Pat Summits of the world really are. She set a standard of excellence on the court, in the classroom, and in the world that players weren't just invited, but expected, to meet. She simply didn't settle for anything less. And low and behold, players rose to meet those expectations time and time again. </div>
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I never had the pleasure of meeting Pat Summitt, I never saw her coach a single game in person. But when I read the news of her death this morning, I cried in a way I hadn't cried in while. There is an inherent injustice to early onset dementia, Alzheimer's type. Having lost a beloved childhood teacher to this very disease earlier this year, I've seen first hand how this disease can topple even the strongest of spirits. Losing a legend at 64 will always leave the world wondering what could have happened if she had just had a few more years pacing the sidelines of the very court Tennessee named after her. How many more games might she had won? How many more titles? </div>
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Pat Summitt stepped down after 38 years, having coached 161 players to 1,098 wins (making her the winning-est coach in Division I, man or woman), eight national titles, and proudly boasting a 100% graduation rate (which is almost unheard of in collegiate athletics, sadly). But, those numbers aren't really her legacy. I've read articles and stories all day long, praising both her caring hand and her tough discipline. These stories aren't just those of her players, but of little girls who simply by growing up with her as an example in the world tried to do better. Her legacy is in people--lives changed, dreams realized, hearts touched. </div>
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And I know that to be true, because my heart was one of them. I want to be the kind of coach, teacher, and person that Pat Summitt would want me to be. And rumor has it, that's a pretty high bar.</div>
Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-11663507417355563602016-02-28T17:36:00.001-06:002016-02-28T20:20:51.010-06:00We Need To Talk About Fuller HouseThat's right. This was serious enough to resurrect the blog, people. I, in my role as the premiere imaginary entertainment reporter, had to address this situation of national importance. Fuller House was a big, fat flop.<br />
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Let me start by saying that this isn't how I wanted things to go. My sister and I loved the original, (and love traditional sitcoms, in general). I watched Full House like everyone in my age group, as part of TGIF when it originally aired. My sister, being nearly ten years younger, watched it in repeats until she's seen every episode multiple times. We are not your casual viewers. When we found out about the Netflix revival, we made an unbreakable date to watch. An entire Saturday was blocked off. Snacks and drinks were acquired. We were focused. We were ready. We lasted two and half episodes before we started watching YouTube videos instead.<br />
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The fact that they show was so boring that we gave up really bothered me. In the name of research, I decided to finish the rest of the episodes on my own today. And I've arrived at a few thoughts on how this train ran so badly off the tracks. <br />
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1) Fuller House is so busy patting itself on the back about how clever it is that it forgets to actually be clever. The jokes are either cheap or just chances to say catch phrases. When they aren't doing that, they are throwing shade at the Olsens or just being meta and it might make you smile but it doesn't make you laugh.<br />
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2) They forgot to bring the heart. Full House was a sitcom, but we loved the characters and we felt for them. We mourned the mother that DJ, Stephanie, and Michelle were robbed of. We felt their heartbreaks and happiness. And we just aren't given that in this new show. DJ has one teary scene about her husband and then it's all about the love triangle. We are not given a chance to really invest in these characters beyond what we already know about them. And that was ultimately disappointing.<br />
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3) The writing just wasn't good. My bar for dialogue is not that high. But it's higher than what was happening here. It felt like Netflix just got together a few B-string writers and said give us every trope you've got, without context or merit. <br />
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4) It relies too much on the history of Full House instead of trying to be its own thing with memories from the old show mixed in. This is what I think other revival shows, like Girl Meets World (which I happen to love), get right. Girl Meets World gives us the character drop-ins we want, but within the context of telling a new story. In the finale, which I liked better than some of the other episodes, Becky and Jesse were renewing their vows, but without their kids or Danny? This was shoehorned into the plot in such a careless way, it actually makes sense when Jesse and Becky leave without telling anyone.<br />
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5) I didn't care who DJ picked in the love triangle. I get that all the true fans were supposed to root for Steve, but he just kind of weirded me out. He was just too much. And I liked Matt, but I feel like we didn't really know him at all. And trying to go through the whole process in 13 episodes just felt really forced.<br />
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I could go on, but I think you get the picture. I wanted to love it, but I just couldn't get there. If you disagree, I'd love to hear your point of view. Maybe I just didn't get it. But it wasn't for lack of trying.<br />
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<br />Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-41799519839323794172015-01-07T12:26:00.002-06:002015-01-07T12:26:48.980-06:00BelongingI've pretty much always been the worst when it comes to journaling. I have many a notebook filled with good intentions and a dozen scribbled pages dissolving into many blank ones. This goes all the way back to my pre-teen years. I want so badly to be one of those women with beautifully scrawled pages, full of thoughts, feelings, prayers, desires. Every so often, I even believe that this will be the year I'll do better and I'll try again (there's one on my nightstand as I type). This blog has really been no different. The manners-loving part of me feels like I need to apologize for this, probably on monogrammed stationery. The rest of me is indifferent, as it would appear that this is just kind of who I am.<div>
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Despite that, I haven't taken this blog down. I still come by and read what's going on with other people I've loved and followed over the years. I keep up with my darling internet friends on other forms of social media. I loved the little community blogging created, and I miss it. Mostly, I miss writing regularly. Admittedly, most of what I wrote here was unimportant, even to me. They were the little moments that make up a life, and while sweet, they were fluff. Every once in a while though, I'd manage to string some words together that really said something resonant, and those are the moments I miss the most. </div>
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I spend a lot of time alone. A lot. Honestly, I don't mind it. I like my little routines and after I've listened to the voices of teens for 7.5 hours on a school day, silence is golden. But, I have missed sitting down and filling my little corner of the internet with my brand of weirdness. I have missed the fine art of rambling until things made sense. I'm still struggling to find places where I fit in, whether in a church community or life in general (you try being the 30-something single girl at social gatherings sometime). There are big, honking chunks of my life from 10 or so years ago that I still miss daily, especially people. In some instances, I think I have romanticized the those days as far as their moments go, but I don't think I've done that with the people. I'm a hard person to win over, and there were people from my former church (which feels almost like a former life, at this point) that I truly loved who are no longer people I see and that's so difficult to face. And it's harder because I just haven't found the kind of fit that I had at that time in my life again. </div>
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At dinner the other night, a friend and I were bemoaning the unique situations we are in socially. It's hard to be a woman without a family of my own when most people my age have at least started on one. There just isn't a lot of common ground. When the church you were raised in and the church you spent most of your 20's in are no longer a part of your life (one literally no longer exists), it's hard to know where you belong. </div>
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I'm thankful that I belonged here, even if that has waned through my inability to find the time or find the words. I'm thankful for the people I "met" and the thoughts and silliness shared in equal measure. And while I doubt I will ever blog with the frequency I once did, I hope I can at least stop by with a thought or two a little more often, because we need as many places we belong as a we can get. Even if they are ones you create for yourself.</div>
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Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-24974036781104393152014-06-19T13:04:00.001-05:002014-06-19T13:04:34.787-05:00Because I Can Be Introspective OccasionallyThere's this great episode from Season 8 of <i>Grey's Anatomy</i> called "If/Then". Meredith, in her opening voice-over, ponders what would happen if just a thing or two had gone differently in her life, if she had made different choices somewhere along the way. The episode goes on to show all of our favorite characters in this alternate dimension, where Mere didn't turn out dark and twisty. But here's the thing, as you watch, the story unfolds eventually leading all the characters back to the people and choices they had made all along in the real world. In the closing moments, Mere's right there at Joe's with McDreamy downing tequila shots. Even though everything was different, nothing was really different.<br />
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And I know that you are staring at the computer going, "So you don't write for months and the first thing you come back with is a <i>Grey's Anatomy</i> recap from two years ago? Seriously?" (heh, heh...seriously?) But stay with me. Who among us hasn't wondered if life would be different if the events of our lives played out in some other way? What if I'd attended that other college? Chosen a different career? What if I had said "yes" instead of "no"? Would my life have somehow turned out measurably better than the one I'm living? <br />
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I've know I've certainly traveled a mile or two down those roads. It's usually when I find myself angry or stressed out about something from my current life. C'mon, you know exactly what I'm talking about. Something goes wrong at work and you find yourself mentally counting off the list of other careers you could have had and how you wouldn't have any problems in any of those. Your friend says something that hurts your feelings, and you start making a list of all the people you should start hanging out with instead of this inconsiderate wretch. Your mind wonders and because our minds are so good at imagining any manner of things, you picture a world where all the world's a stage and you're the star. (I can only speak for the extroverts here. Introverts, I'm assuming yours is more like all the world's a stage and you get to be left alone in the prop room or something.) You have a brilliant career in which you are universally admired and revered. You have the picture perfect family, like something right off the Hallmark card. You go on glamorous vacations, have wonderful friends. Your life is shiny and bright and not even remotely inside the realm of possibility. <br />
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I don't say this to be a Debbie Downer. I'm not trying to say that you can't have nice things and enjoy them with nice people. I'm not even saying that you can't dream up something and pursue it. You can, and maybe you should. But even if you make those other choices, your life won't be perfect. Because here's the news flash: Life is never perfect. I have a friend who hates the saying, "It is what it is." But I really think it's true here. Your life is your life is your life and you can always change the sails, but that doesn't mean your new direction will never be stormy. It also doesn't mean you won't end up right back where you were supposed be all along. <br />
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I chose a simple life for myself. I live in the same community I was raised in around the same people I've known all my life. I teach in the very same school district I attended, for goodness sake. (I've chosen to be in middle school indefinitely. Crazy, right?) My life isn't fancy, but it's mine. (At least whatever parts I'm not still paying for.) I spend 90% of my time feeling like I don't have any clue how to do pretty much anything, and yet somehow, I've carved out a life. Sure, there were other paths, and sometimes it's fun to imagine them, but that's all it ever really is. I just feel like, even if I'd taken one of those other paths, I still would somehow end up here. And here's good.Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6768865386007166850.post-39106430212781774802014-04-13T13:16:00.003-05:002014-04-30T08:21:04.686-05:00In Good TimesI have spent the last few months directing the school musical. It was crazy and it was hard and it was wonderful. We had our shows this weekend and I'm so proud of how well things went. I came home last night with my flowers from the cast and my heart full of compliments from the community and it was glorious. And then, it kind of wasn't. <br />
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I've lived on my own for nearly ten years. Most days, coming home to my quiet little house is a haven from the rest of the world. I like knowing that, unless my sister has stopped by, things will stay where I put them (even though my organizational systems are often lacking). I love not having to consult someone when I want to do something spur-of-the-moment. I love coming home, putting on my pajamas, and watching Netflix until bed if I so choose. But sometimes, when something wonderful is happening in my life, and I'm full to brim with happy, I wish that I had someone to come home to, someone to celebrate that feeling with. Being single is rarely something that even crosses my mind anymore, especially when things are as busy as they have been. But last night, I wished that I had someone to share my good times with more than I had in a long time. <br />
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It's funny to me that happy times are when this comes up the most. I can deal with sad. I can even deal with most of the everyday things, even taking out the trash, as much as I whine about it. But last night, I wanted my man (however fictional he may be) to be there to watch the show, to take me out for a late dinner, to read aloud all of the sweet Facebook comments to. Not having that put a sad tint to all of my happy. And I really wish that wasn't the case. I wish I was self-assured enough to just go to bed alone knowing I'd done well. But apparently, I'm not. I went Eeyore all over Twitter, instead. (Much like I'm doing in this post. Sorry, peeps.)<br />
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Maybe it's all just the emotional let-down of a stressful week. Maybe it's just me going back to the "Will I be alone forever?" well that I thought I'd long abandoned. I don't know. Lonely and happy will always be better than lonely as sad, but couldn't I just feel one thing at a time? I know that's not how it works, but it would be awfully handy.<br />
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Anyway, I'm still here. And I have read every sweet message you left on the last post. Thanks for being awesome. Katiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04415103442338267124noreply@blogger.com2